How to raise a woman among boys

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How to bring a lady among the boys she is climbing, riding a bike, playing soccer and cars, hunts for insects and frogs,He loves to run a race, and video games, it is difficult to put in something other than jeans.And she loves her brothers and practically does not leave them.Classic example tomboy.Rather, it is - the only girl in a large family.She soon adopts the behavior of older brothers, because she needs to win recognition in the man's world, meet the expectations.She needs to "fit in" and be "the guy."So are all the only daughter in large families are doomed to the fate of a tomboy, or it is still possible to bring a lady among the boys?

Psychologists insist that the formation of the personality of the child should take place regardless of the composition of the family.Attentive parents always try to figure out how to contribute to the development of the child.Parents, daughter and several sons, risk of stroke in one of two extremes - or they will treat it in the same way as with her brothers, or turn into a little princess.Meanwhile, constantly pushing the girl in a certain predetermined direction, whether it is a bias toward male or female - hence impede the development of its own unique personality and character.Some girls Naturally feminine and behave accordingly, but others are more susceptible to the influence of external circumstances and environment.Therefore, parents play a key role in the education of the lady boys.It is the parents should send the girl and help her become a lady.This process requires from both the girls and their parents, it begins in early childhood.


What to look for in the education of girls

to educate ladies, it is important to impress the girl child, she is different from his brothers.Boys grow into men, as a dad, and the girl will grow up and become a woman, as a mother.Often girls perceive themselves as well as their surrounding boys.They play and interact in the same company, and in the broadest sense is the perception of it is natural and normal, but understanding the differences before the girls from the boys psychologically prepare it allows for differences that will appear later.It also gives her a chance to express themselves and develop their own scenario, that is, the freedom to be a lady, and do not always behave like a boy.Even small gestures and actions of parents can have a tremendous impact on the formation of femininity girl.

Pay attention to the important nuances of her daughter, such as voice.Remind her that she would be a woman, and women quiet melodious voice, not loud and rough.Be prepared for the fact that your little girl will shout the loudest boys, but from time to time ask to use her "feminine" voice.Explain the difference between a loud sharp tone, relevant in the rough world of boyish, friendly and relaxed tone to be used by the girls.Perhaps these details some time for her to remain unclear, because most of the time she spends with his brothers.Help his daughter to "find" her female voice (of course, in private, let it be your little secret).Explain that a daughter, when you need to use that voice;for example, in the room in front of the guests, in a conversation with young children / puppets, and in conversation with friends.

Tell the daughter of the difference in the behavior of boys and girls.Your girl from childhood to accept the natural functions of the body as something funny, do not you believe her brothers.Moreover, most likely, the brothers will be very proud to have taught her sister to publish any obscene noises, and encourage participation in all sorts of competitions like "Who puknet louder" or "fanciful who otrygnet."And how happy they are watching as a sister show their skills podrugamyu Naturally, from this promotion and pride girl blossoms.At the same parents are obliged to dedicate it to the wisdom of a true feminine behavior;teach her to sit, walk, shop, drink tea and so on.Parents should teach her daughter to behave as befits a girl to explain what actions are permissible only in the game with his brothers and totally unacceptable in a different society.Girls do not belch the alphabet in public, girls do not pee on the street and do not fight with my friends.The only girl in the family needs parental guidance and leadership to learn to recognize what actions are allowed for the lady, and what - no.


girly accessories and hobbies

girl growing up in a male environment, I need some very girly accessories.Some girls like such little things, the other - seem ridiculous.But in order to learn how to be a lady, necessary accessories, for example, some women's garments, even if the clothes fit her older brothers.It is not that from head to toe decorating girl pink bows and ruffles, turning it into a kind of cake, but some attributes appearance girl - bow in her hair, or rim, shoes and tights or socks for girls, bag, doll, girly pajamasball with floral print, hat, dress, little pink clothes, books, focused on girls - will not be superfluous.These accessories will clearly show the girl, what are the specific differences between boys and girls, and prepare it for a harmonious transition to the age of the girl.Do not forbid my daughter to play with his brothers, do not scold her manner of dress or play, just acquaint her with a lady of your surroundings.To all children requires an individual approach, but when in a large family, only one girl, she must have special privileges, especially in the cultivation of femininity, psychological advice.

In addition, the girls, to educate boys, you need comfort and a change of scenery.She must have their own space where she can find peace and to do what is interesting only to her, not adjusting to the tastes of the brothers.For a single girl in a large family naturally desire to spend some time alone.Give the daughter the freedom and the space to be herself.Encourage her desire for independence and unwillingness to be like brothers.Find interesting lesson for her daughter - ballet, dancing, watercolor painting, fashion and so on.Give it the right choice and the right to engage in some very "girly" business.Make sure that her daughter had been close friends for games and socializing.

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