Holiday romance: Pros and Cons


summer fling What you need for a good holiday?The heat, the sea, the sun, a change of scenery, exciting experiences, and of course, romance Romance - trap for women? Romance - trap for women? .Well go to the resort in a society of a loved one, but if not, then why not make a holiday romance?These novels are very popular, although satisfying summer adventure brings not always.

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Advantages holiday novels

resort novels about the dream of many.This romantic young girl, who believe that they will find love in the sun.And the mothers of families, tired of life and seeking the opportunity to unwind.And ladies, who want to find the man "for health."Men also do not mind the holiday novels.They can collect the win or love to dream for a while forget about the family and to feel free.

It would seem, why these people do not meet and give each other happy days and wonderful experiences, which can be tedious to recall autumn evenings?For holiday romance have many advantages:

  • Increase self-esteem.Holiday romance allows you to feel the most important, the most desirable and attractive man - at least not for long;
  • Romance.The very romantic, which is so little in everyday life.The same romance that are written so many books and so many movies filmed.Holiday romances are very beautiful;
  • If the novel at the resort - it is a betrayal of the constant partner, the threat of exposing virtually none.Of course, the partner may have something suspect, but the evidence he will not.Thus, you can get a new sexual experience and enjoy a new relationship without any risk to the family.The main thing - to agree with his own conscience;
  • beautiful resort novel that relations do not reach the stage of mutual irritation.Only pure enjoyment - and no fee for it;
  • After parting new partner or the partner will not be bothered, to express claims hint at the continuation of the relationship, make a scene of jealousy ... They just disappear, leaving only about yourself wonderful memories;
  • In a relationship with a new boyfriend can try on new roles, for example, vamp, or, conversely, a naive girl.Men can forget about their image faithful husband and behave like real playboys.You can come up with for a new biography - it's very interesting and exciting;
  • The resort can meet his destiny.Where people just do not meet with their loved ones, and the resort - not the worst option.

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Disadvantages of such novels

Not all find holiday romance fixture of rest.Many of these novels is avoided, and it is no coincidence: in addition to the advantages of such novels have a number of disadvantages:

  • infected by virtually unknown partner venereal disease Venereal disease - an unpleasant gift of the goddess of love Sexually transmitted diseases - an unpleasant gift of the goddess of love not as difficult as it seems.Unfortunately, even the strongest condoms may not provide protection, for example, genital herpes Herpes - a virus creeping Herpes - a virus creeping .Of course, if the caution, the probability of contracting diseases that are transmitted sexually, is small, but it is still there;
  • surprises.Relaxing relations are developing rapidly, so the time to know a person better not: the result can be very inappropriately reveal that new acquaintance rude, cruel, or with some big strange or unpleasant sexual preferences;
  • can become a victim of crime.After a hot night with a stranger have a chance to discover that he disappeared, and with it disappeared handbag with jewelery, money and credit cards.Men criminals often simply pour into a glass of clonidine, and then disappear with all the money the hapless gentleman.Similarly may engage in fishing as the locals and other visitors.Chance offender is small enough, in addition, usually the time to appeal to the police does not have enough: thieves conduct such operations on the eve of the departure of the victim;
  • feel guilty for treason before a permanent partner.Conscientious people better to abandon acts of which would later be ashamed.And of course, his remorse is not shared with any innocent permanent partner - will experience alone;
  • fall in love at the resort.Almost everyone daring to holiday romance, try to treat him as any non-binding adventure.But Lawless Heart, and sometimes relationships grow into something more ... but only on one side.As a result, instead of the wonderful memories of the holiday is a broken heart and a feeling of dissatisfaction;
  • become the object of love, and even persecution.No better situation, if your partner woke up feeling.Suddenly he shows miracles of ingenuity and find a way to pursue the object of his love is the resort?

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there any prospects for the holiday novels?

It would seem that we all know that most of the holiday romance does not end there.Yet, many secretly hoping to find love on vacation.Of course, miracles do happen, but they are extremely rare.More often, those who are waiting for a summer romance too much, will be disappointed.

Typically, these frustrations experienced by women, men are beginning to resort to the novel as a fun adventure, and not to search for the second half.The girls are more romantic and focus on long-term relationships: they start to fantasize about love and as a result feel cheated.It is interesting that often fall in love not only young and inexperienced, but also those who want to seem cynical and looking for a man for sex only.

holiday romance is quite right to exist if it is possible to control their feelings do not fall in love, do not expect too much, do not suffer remorse in advance to accept the lack of prospects.But if, contrary to all forecasts holiday romance still will be continued, and the continuation of a happy, it will be a pleasant surprise for both sides.

Maria Bykov