How to meet a girl on the street: the ability to properly communicate
Every day you see on the streets of beautiful girls.And, of course, thinking about how to meet them.And in most cases are not familiar with - for various reasons.Some believe the old stereotype that decent girls do not meet on the street, someone does not have the courage.Sometimes you just do not have time, but that's another problem.How to meet a girl on the street?
You will need:
- Communication skills
Be prepared.The hardest thing is to get acquainted with the girl in everyday situations.All tend to be very hurry and are not in the best mood, so that the likelihood of rejection once (perhaps rudely), great if you do not have the charisma and ability to fascinate.
objectively assess their communication skills.You really know how to communicate and know how to win the interlocutor?If not, read the literature on the subject, or even sign up for courses.Learn to communicate constantly: at work, at the gym, in the shops, at parties;notes how people react to certain your words, gestures, intonation, smile.Keep track of good and bad jokes.You can not know when and where you meet the girl of your dreams, but it will not be superfluous, if by that time you will become a guru of communication.
When you learned to communicate without too much effort, it is time to start to familiarize themselves in public.To start "work out" just to everybody - talk to the guard nightclub, a cashier, a man who stands in line in front of you.What to say?About anything - how many people come to the club on Friday night, and difficult to know whether to look at the night of merry men;as the increase in prices over the past month, and so on.Just a comment on what you see around and that you're interested.Stay with boxes of fruit in the store, ask any person who is nearby, what fruit he or she will advise you.The main thing - practice and get rid of the embarrassment.
learned to speak to strangers at ease?It's time to get acquainted with the girls that you like.They - such as a stranger, but you usually intimidated in front of them.Overcome shyness and embarrassment while talking to them will not be for you as easy as with any other person.Yes, your stomach will still be butterflies, but it can not hurt you.
Try to get acquainted with all the girls that you like, especially those to whom you are shy hardest.You can even do it for fun - Prove yourself in uncomfortable situations for you, expand your comfort zone.
Once your comfort zone became more cease to do it all!Yes, stop to admire all consecutive women chasing them and speak to each charming stranger.All this was necessary only in order to expand your comfort zone.
now dating girls cease to be an end in itself.You know you can do it, and you are not afraid, if someone you really like, you can easily and naturally get to know her.So it should be, you have learned it.You can relax and enjoy the new skill.
Learn acquainted with the girls is in the order of the above recommendations.There are objective reasons.First of all, you need to improve their basic social skills, and only then proceed to the most difficult - start communicating with girls who might like you to tremble at the knees.