Proper dating - do not rush
First of all, the necessary conditions, which means "right"?Correct - it is familiar, in which you achieve the object of desire of the subsequent communication.In other words, to achieve reaction "positive".
How to start?
Naturally, attracting attention, and this can be achieved in different ways.The most common of them: "Hello!".Rules of etiquette just leave "victim" choice but to answer his own "hello!»
next most popular followed by "supervopros."However, questions have yet to learn to ask!There are two kinds of them: first, the question is closed, there are a limited number of variations of the response;second, respectively, open question, but it is not limited in the response.For example, attracting the attention of the phrase, "the girl, tell me: what time?" And received a laconic: "17:34", you will have to stretch the imagination to continue to keep the attention of the object and continue to communicate.And, say, to ask her a woman's opinion on what style of dress you would fit more in response will receive a detailed monologue!
Compliment expresses our natural desire to show their sympathy for the object.The difficulty is that a compliment, we tend to put what is most vivid and striking priority.For example: "What are you beautiful!".On the one hand, every woman is pleased to hear once again reinforce their pride, on the other hand, the beauty knows that she is beautiful - is not new for her!Originality several times improves compliment Compliments and their meaning: do not mistake the words : «you have a discerning eye, perhaps you can see through people?".
can also fully trust the situation and act in accordance with it, "Stop, you can not go there!Passage closed!Come on, I know a short cut! ", Take the object by the hand and win over him;or, for example, as "sir, but could you help me bring the bags, but I do not seem to calculate the forces in the store ...".In the above variation between men and women played the role of the strong and the weak, that is prirodnopredpolagaemye.It is also notable for the fact that between you installed tactile contact directly (through contact) or indirectly (through item), which contributes to the feeling of confidence call.
can attract attention and sound effects, for example, obstuchal shoes from the snow: "What a slob!I hate winter!Do you like? ".Or scare her bicycle trill call and offer to bring the lady.
But if you want, that acquaintance was vivid and memorable escort him outside the box!You can, for example, to introduce an employee sociological service, and test object on the topic of sexual preferences - will come in handy for the future!
And then, in fact, left with two choices: either you ready to communicate and keep or share your contacts and transfer meeting.If you are still not ready or for some reason can not continue talking, let's hurry to work, just exchanged phone numbers with the object.For example, going to object and ask her to help you write a SMS acknowledgment of sympathy for the girl.When the last will help you make it, just tell her to enter your destination line number and send SMS!
What can I say?
You can talk all you want, but that is acceptable to both.It could be a joke, stories and anecdotes;can be life stories, dialogues about science, politics, or your favorite cartoon.The main thing that the conversation was interesting and comfortable for both!To what extent have to adjust to the partner and to find common ground.
Sometimes, when we first met shyness gets the upper hand, and to find a common theme vzaimointeresnuyu turns out far not at once.A great way to save is going to the movies.While viewing, firstly, it provides the ability to set a break and tactile contact (e.g., take the hand);and, secondly, - opens the door to dialogue: here and directing idea and hidden meaning, the acting ...
Deposit luck any endeavor - a positive emotion Emotions and culture: how to decipher the emotional code .Give them to each other, then communication will be easy, joyful and so desirable!