"If a woman ..." - through the eyes of men
you always said that men - untamable creatures from another planet, all the desires which are formed in the pants.But the truth is that it is much more similar to us women than you ever thought.He just does not know how to recognize you in this.
If your man is not in what does not produce that what's really thinking, do not torment yourself with doubts.In this article you will learn the seven major masculine "if", for us, the women.
Please stop asking him to be more romantic
He never buys you flowers, not leads you to restaurants and generally do not hold a candle to fit the ideal romance Romance - trap for women? , which met your sister.With what he took?You yourself constantly remind him about it.
He would like you to admire what he does for you
Yes, he does not buy you roses for no reason,but what about those days when he takes over the morning walking the dog, especially to give you sleep in?Or those evenings when he sat stoically with you on the romantic comedy, actually burning with desire to look at the people running away from the computer monster.
Sometimes we girls so hung up on the list of "conventional" expressions of love that we forget about the dozens of other (sometimes much more original!) Ways of caring.Unfortunately, flowers, dinners in luxury restaurants and small shiny gizmos in velvet boxes are sometimes fortune.Maybe your boyfriend wants to surprise you all this, but just can not afford it.
expressed his admiration for his care (and himself!), Thanking him for the dead man to have a spider in the bathroom.The mere fact that he would not do it, shows his sincerity towards you.
Please stop configure a known defeat
you allow yourself a second piece of the pie, and did not see the gym here for several months.Favorite pants adhesive qualities hips much stronger than before, but you still can not believe those extra 5 kilograms, which you persistently reported scales.And you decide to ask your question to the man from whom any member of the male begins migraine I have a migraine.What to do? ... «Honey, I'm fat?»
He wants to get away from the line of fire
now - and forever change these settings.You know that better, sat up late at work and did not have to cut bangs at home ... But do not tell your man.These cues you give him a choice: lie or risk forever be for you unfeeling log.This habit does not help a harmonious relationship!
Believe me, it is quite safe solution - to assume that no one but you will notice a small pimple on the nose or a couple of extra kilos.But the solution is more dangerous - to talk about their doubts anyone.Where reasonable to take corrective measures - the most.
If you feel a little out of shape, "donate" his sports club membership card or replace the stair lift, but in any case, do not force the young man to tell you what you want to hear.Sending him a twofold message, such as "Be honest, but only if it does not offend me," you make him feel insecure, and myself not to get rid of complexes.In addition, a very big chance that he will not even notice your plump thighs ... as long as you do it yourself it will not tell!
He wants you to take it for what it is
you love your man, but his style of dress, hairstyle or passion 'Star Wars' cause you shudder?He - a great guy and you agreed to meet with him, hoping to transform these small disadvantages for you.
Please stop trying to change his
Of course, it's normal for partners - to change under the influence of each other, but do not expect to do it on purpose.It's disrespectful - to force a person to give up what is dear to him.When starting to meet with you, he said he likes to go to football on Sundays, do not be offended if he rejects the idea of a Sunday picnic just for the two of you.
rasstantes with the desire to remake and listen to that man by whom he is actually.His habits, values, way of life have a profound impact on future relations.If he says he does not want children, not a "plan" that he changes his mind.And if he likes loose pants, instead of recriminations think if you can combine with them.
Treat your man so you will not only avoid conflicts, but will save up your nerves.Think about how much effort requires change your own habits.What can we say about the other person you do not know until the end?